Showing posts with label daughter. Show all posts
Showing posts with label daughter. Show all posts

Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Tuesday Poem: Daughter

For F

How fraught this word with its 'gh' 
appearing to snag like a 'g' should
then at the last minute letting the air
through like the 
door 
to the gate left open when she 
should be inside on her bed listening
to Axel Rose and doing her science
homework or
like a window left open for cigarette smoke –  
see! there's a 'g' right there doing what
a 'g' ought to – jagged little thing –
catching at the throat
like smoke does when you're not used to it,
in no time at all
our smooth babies chuckling
like eggs on the boil 
are snagging on all sorts of things
that ‘g’ getting in the way again when they
ought to 
surely, be able to find their way through
and around obstacles like water does,
but no, there they are: words
like prickles, like bruises and cuts,
more than we could never imagine, or,
worse, a ravaged interior –
that 'g' again of a different sort
jagged like a knife this time, like an 
auger 
fighting its way into the soil, like a breath taken
when breath is hard to take,
no, stand aside, we cannot go there
not on our own, not like this for we mothers
will always be new mothers on hard sheets 
babies at our breasts squeaky as silk
our bodies pouring forth
in a way that speaks of libation and sacrifice
which brings up that word at last:
augur
But it’s no good. I can't
do anything with it, can’t foretell how
it will be for us or for them, but particularly for her.
All we can wish for is that this daughter
is safe in her bed, the one
with tie-dyed pillows and cinnamony sheets
and posters of Marilyn – or better
the one with the pink and orange satin
heart pillow and Little Mermaid book
and the door open a crack, just a crack,
so we can stand there and simply
adore her.                                    


By Mary McCallum 

And do check out the fabulous Tuesday Poem at the hub - by a UK poet this week - selected by Janis Freegard. And a raft of fab poems can be found in the TP sidebar too. 

Saturday, November 15, 2008

Daughter


Golden Delicious

She is sunny
she is sunny side up, my girl
running to meet me.
The other girls look lumpy
with their slumping shoulders
dyed hair and regrowth.
But my one is a beautiful apple
rolling down the drive
out past the school gates.

These are some lines from one of my favourite poems Daughter by Michele Amas. Daughters - or one particular daughter - are on my mind at the moment. The poem was in Michele's collection After the Dance (VUP 2005) which was shortlisted for a Montana, and selected for Best NZ Poems 2005.

Michele says her poems are inspired by what she hears; and like all good actors, she's an eavesdropper. I love that about her work. It resonates with the busyness of people: the things they say and do to fend off and cope with and love the world and each other.

In Best NZ Poems, it says Michele's shift from acting to writing poetry 'came out of a desire to speak from her own script rather than someone else’s.' She says:
‘Acting is a great way to escape yourself, to ignore yourself, and when I stopped for a while there was this chattering going on in my head that I’d never heard before, so I just started taking notes.’

“Daughter” was written out of a desperation to contain a myriad of emotions that living with a teenager forces you to experience daily. In this poem I have attempted to describe the shifting emotional landscape that a mother and child stumble into, quite out of the blue, both unprepared and bewildered – full of blame and guilt, need and love.’'
Read the whole poem online here.